competition

it's a well known fact that women tend to be too competetive with other women, especially when it comes to superficial matters, like if your girlfriend got the latest parada bag, and for some reason, YOU JUST HAVE TO GET IT!

This is really unfortunate because women have so many internalized issues as opposed to men. We have to scramble to men's standards, live up to all these fucking beauty standards, and WE ARE BEING COMPETETIVE TO OTHER WOMEN JUST TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT OURSELVES? girls, i really don't think it's necessary. Just learn how to love yourself more, and learn to love what you have! And understand the differences each person has with one another, trying to hype up your insecurities will not help you in anyway, i swear it will only make you feel so shitty about yourself.

Alot of my guy friends complain to me why so many women are insecure as hell towards other women. And i really can't blame them cause it is true, and at the same time, i can't blame women too, because i have been there and done that. It all goes back to societal fallacies, and how detrimental these matters are to women all over the world. The fact that society keeps pushing women towards a certain look that they should have, a certain attitude they gotta show, etc. etc. drives women towards the most unfathomable insecurities.

there's so much more to experience than keeping yourself locked up in your insecurities. Think about the things you like about yourself, and stick to it! embrace it! and always remember to riot not diet!

Loren N.